Comments on: End of Life.. http://www.homedespotelly.com/2006/11/06/end-of-life/ Seeking a Simple Life Lived Well Sun, 29 Jan 2012 22:51:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: amy sue http://www.homedespotelly.com/2006/11/06/end-of-life/comment-page-1/#comment-526 amy sue Tue, 07 Nov 2006 02:47:06 +0000 http://www.homedespotelly.com/2006/11/06/end-of-life/#comment-526 I know it is different for everyone, but when a passing is drawn out so long like that, there is a strange sense of relief. There is grief too, but you just feel so much better for them when they go. Sometimes the grief kicks in and you miss them, and you want them back so that you can have them with you, and that's okay too. But, the relief is such a strange feeling. It'll be okay Elly, eventually your feelings will sort out, and it'll be easier to pinpoint what your feeling..and then you just have to let yourself feel. I'm sorry for your grandma, and I'm sorry that it hurts you to see her go. Just know that we'll be praying for you, and that you'll know what to feel when the time is right....You're doing the right thing, it's good to see her while you can, but seeing her is mostly for you, try not to feel guilty if you can't always be there. I know it is different for everyone, but when a passing is drawn out so long like that, there is a strange sense of relief. There is grief too, but you just feel so much better for them when they go. Sometimes the grief kicks in and you miss them, and you want them back so that you can have them with you, and that’s okay too. But, the relief is such a strange feeling. It’ll be okay Elly, eventually your feelings will sort out, and it’ll be easier to pinpoint what your feeling..and then you just have to let yourself feel. I’m sorry for your grandma, and I’m sorry that it hurts you to see her go. Just know that we’ll be praying for you, and that you’ll know what to feel when the time is right….You’re doing the right thing, it’s good to see her while you can, but seeing her is mostly for you, try not to feel guilty if you can’t always be there.

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