The Most Wonderful Time of the Year..

The busiest at any rate. At our book study for “young marrieds” (at the last one which I attended Michael and I had been married the longest of the “young couples” there!!) we discussed a chapter of My Life For Yours about Christmas, and several of us felt ashamed of our less than enthusiastic view [...]

Happy Thanksgiving!

We had a very happy Thanksgiving at my parents this last week! We were going to stay Wednesday through Sunday, but ended up leaving Saturday afternoon to avoid the bad weather predicted to start today (Sunday). I’m glad we did! My mom called this morning to tell me that it was snowing there and that [...]

What is Death to 3-year-olds?

I’ve been trying to figure out how to deal with explaining my grandmother’s passing to Judah. He’s nearly 3 years old now, and he doesn’t seem inclined to merely forget Grandma inside a few weeks. Which is good, I think, but it leads to interesting misunderstandings and odd feedback. When she first passed away I [...]

Over the River and Through the Desert..

This year we’re doing the whole rotating holidays between grandparents thing – last year we spent Thanksgiving here and Christmas with my folks, and this year we’re spending Thanksgiving with my folks and Christmas with Michael’s folks here in town. We’re leaving tomorrow, and I should be getting ready for that trip right now, but…\par
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Christmas Candles

On Sunday I got the bug to decorate for Christmas. It was too early to decorate for Christmas, according to my normal reasoning, but I am trying to impliment Don Aslet’s “Do It Now” policy so I started. Mostly I got out things that were not too complicated – no lights, no fake pine-needles, no [...]

Why not write?

Why haven’t I written much lately? A combination of slow times with nothing to write about and too-busy times with plenty to write about and no time to write it, I suppose. Probably a decreased interest right now, too, what with the holidays and everything.\par
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Oh well, I’m here now! We just got back from the [...]

Goodbye Grandma.

Yes, my grandmother, Mildred, passed away at 12:30 am Wednesday morning. My mom called in the morning as I was getting breakfast for the boys. I had been planning on going to see her that morning. She passed peacefully, and one of the employees was with her at the time.\par
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There’s a curious sense of finality [...]

End of Life..

My grandmother is failing pretty rapidly right now. She’s living at a retirement facility in Molalla, OR. I go and see her every Wednesday, though I think I’m going to go and see her today (Monday) as well. It’s a very odd thing in a way to have a grandparent die of old age. I [...]

What do they teach them in these schools?

Michael was on a business trip this last week, Wednesday through Friday. He was there with a coworker, John, with whom he carpooled. Apparently he told him that I was going to a “Jane Austen Party” on Saturday (actually a Pride and Prejudice party where we watched the entire A&E version of the beloved novel). [...]