Life Planning

I tried to do some goal-setting for this next year last week. I read a book Michael got out of the library and used the do-it-yourself workshop at the back of the book. The book was all peppy and me-centered, but I thought the idea of sitting back for a moment (or a day) and trying to decide which goals to pursue first\’c3\’82\’c2\~ (yard vs. house, sewing vs. crocheting, reading aloud vs. artwork, etc.) was a good one. The idea is to set your goals, try to develop a positive mindset (stop telling yourself you can’t because….) and then train yourself to spend time doing important but not urgent things vs. important or unimportant urgent things. That way you’ll be ahead of yourself because you’ll have done the important things before they become urgent and you’ll hopefully have spent time on the things that will make a material difference in your life rather than frittering it away on all of those little necessities that are always there waiting to be done but that nobody will remember tomorrow, let alone in 50 years. First you make your yearly goals, and then ever month, and every week you’re supposed to make goals to accomplish toward the biggies. So this week I determined that under my first and main goal “declutter house” I just wanted to do two things: clean out an old shoebox left-over from Grandma’s residence here which she used to contain various odds and ends – some of which are useful to me, some of which might be useful to others, and some of which need to be thrown out; and clean off the windowsill in the utility room of the same sorts of things.\par
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Per the books instructions, I should’ve done those on Monday – because those are the important, long term difference things (not the shoebox necessarily, but the decluttering). I knew that. I planned on that. But today (Friday) I finally got around to it.\par
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Now, is this a success? Or a failure? Or just mediocre? After all, I did get it done! But I was about 5 days late. I don’t know. Hopefully, I’ll do better next week. It sure felt good though to get those two little things done and to know that I was actually doing something to work toward my long-term goal of being clutter-free!\par
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Anybody need any old outlet adaptors? I’ve got lots!

3 comments to Life Planning

  • Somebody in our appartment complex has wireless internet and has left it configured for open access, so for a while at least, I have Internet. I thought I’d use it to come see what you’ve been up to, since, as you said today, we haven’t talked much lately. Ah, the Internet is a great thing. Here we can both have a conversation seemingly without being interupted whenever it is convenient. My baby is taking a nap right now…\par
    Anyway, I wanted to comment on your little blurb about life planning. I’ve been doing something kind of along those lines for the past few weeks, only with a much more short term focus. I ask myself at the beginning of the week, “What do I want to get done by Sunday.” And, since I’m a list writer, I write down a reasonable amount of tasks and then decide which days to do them on (I am also a schedule maker). So then, on Wednesday, once I finish ironing, cleaning the sinks and mirrors, and vaccuuming, I don’t have to feel guilty for sitting and reading, because I’ve already done my tasks for the day. Plus, the house gets to be reasonably clean by Sunday. So far it’s worked for two weeks, we’ll see how long it lasts.

  • So what’s the book? :) A couple months ago I made a list of some tasks (very concrete, obvious when they can be checked off, not vague) I wanted to acomplish. I’m almost done with it; it’s nice to have something to help you focus your efforts. I’ve also moved away from the “every ___day I do ___” routine, and just listed the things I should do weekly and daily and if I do a couple of the weekly things every day I’ll stay pretty much on top of it. Right now I’m more into just trying to keep dishes done, meals cooked, laundry done, and the house generally tidy. :) And boys under control…yeah, I better go. :)

  • Oh, and — hey! — you got it done within the week of the arbitrary scheduled day? At this stage in life, that’s definitely a success! :)

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